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Sex-Positive & Non-Monogamy Therapy

Maya Attia

LMFT #139693
Irvine, California
Virtual Only — All of California

Specialties

Specialties
Non-Monogamy & Kink Affirming Relationships Neurodiversity
Related areas of expertise
Autism ADHD Body Image
Modalities
EFT IFS Somatic Trauma-Informed
Communities & languages
Kink-Friendly LGBTQ+

Bio

Maya Attia is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist offering online therapy to neurodivergent adults and couples throughout California. Her practice centers on people exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, kink and BDSM, and on autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD clients who are worn out from masking their way through every room.

Maya is autistic herself, and she does not work from behind a blank screen. Clients describe her as direct, unfiltered, and knowledgeable. Sex, kink, power exchange, non-monogamy, identity — the material most people edit before it leaves their mouth — is ordinary conversation in her sessions, and she takes what a client carries seriously without flinching at it.

"With the right person across from you, a space where you never have to translate yourself, things start to move."

She brings ten years of lived experience alongside intensive clinical training. Her work is anchored in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and sex therapy, and spans trauma-informed care, kink-affirming practice, queer and gender-expansive affirming care, ENM-affirming practice, and neurodivergent-affirming approaches. For clients in BDSM, she treats the container itself — negotiated power, explicit consent, scripts, rituals — as a place where real healing can happen.

Alongside relationships and sexuality, Maya works with body image from a weight-inclusive, shame-free stance, aiming at body loyalty rather than body love, and with sexual and genital pain. Whether you are unmasking, opening a relationship, repairing after a rupture, or coming back to your own body, sessions are built to send you home with structures and practical tools rather than insight alone.

Therapeutic Approach

  • Direct, unfiltered conversation about sex, kink, power exchange, non-monogamy, and identity
  • A therapist who shows up as a whole person rather than a blank screen, with ten years of lived experience behind the clinical work
  • Anchored in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and sex therapy, with trauma-informed care throughout
  • Neurodivergent-affirming work on unmasking, built for autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD adults and couples
  • Practical structures to take away — negotiated agreements, ways to repair after a rupture, language for shame

Contact

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Sessions
Orange County, California

Licenses & Training

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) #139693 — California, 2022
MA, Integral Counseling Psychology California Institute of Integral Studies, 2020
BA, Music Performance University of Massachusetts Boston, 2012
Sex Therapy Training Modern Sex Therapy Institutes (AASECT-approved)
Somatic Sex Therapy & Sexual/Genital Pain Modern Sex Therapy Institutes
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) EFCT and EFIT externships
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Development, Application & Transformational Model
ENM, Polyamory & BDSM Polyunsure After Polysecure; BDSM and Stigma
Adult ADHD & Autism Assessment The Chicago School; Neuropebble
Gender-Expansive & LGBTQIA+ Affirming Care The Affirmative Couch

Rates

Individual Session
$250
50 minutes
Couples Session
$300
50 minutes
Relationship Agreement
$400
2-hour session
Payment
Maya is an out-of-network provider and does not bill insurance directly. If your plan has out-of-network benefits, she can provide a superbill after each session to submit for possible reimbursement. Payment is due at the time of service, and a Good Faith Estimate is available in writing under the No Surprises Act. A free consultation is offered before booking. Cancellations with at least 48 hours' notice are not charged.
Private Pay Out-of-Network Superbill Available Free Consultation

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