Maya Attia is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist offering online therapy to neurodivergent adults and couples throughout California. Her practice centers on people exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, kink and BDSM, and on autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD clients who are worn out from masking their way through every room.
Maya is autistic herself, and she does not work from behind a blank screen. Clients describe her as direct, unfiltered, and knowledgeable. Sex, kink, power exchange, non-monogamy, identity — the material most people edit before it leaves their mouth — is ordinary conversation in her sessions, and she takes what a client carries seriously without flinching at it.
"With the right person across from you, a space where you never have to translate yourself, things start to move."
She brings ten years of lived experience alongside intensive clinical training. Her work is anchored in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and sex therapy, and spans trauma-informed care, kink-affirming practice, queer and gender-expansive affirming care, ENM-affirming practice, and neurodivergent-affirming approaches. For clients in BDSM, she treats the container itself — negotiated power, explicit consent, scripts, rituals — as a place where real healing can happen.
Alongside relationships and sexuality, Maya works with body image from a weight-inclusive, shame-free stance, aiming at body loyalty rather than body love, and with sexual and genital pain. Whether you are unmasking, opening a relationship, repairing after a rupture, or coming back to your own body, sessions are built to send you home with structures and practical tools rather than insight alone.
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